Help women like Alex Tanner
Alex Tanner was undertaking her routine mammogram when her life changed forever.
Aged 48, she’ll never forget the words the doctor said that day: “There’s a suspicious area on your left breast”.
It was April 2021, in a time affected by Covid, so while the mother-of-three would normally have her husband by her side at these appointments, visitor restrictions meant he was waiting in the carpark.
It was a surreal time.
“I eventually saw my husband down at the car park and I said ‘I think I have breast cancer’,” Alex recalls.
She soon underwent a biopsy, which confirmed their fears.
“I had what’s called invasive lobular cancer, which grows flat and spider-like. It’s referred to as being very sneaky,” she says.
“It’s very rare that you’d feel a lump with this type of cancer, you’d normally see more of a change in your breast appearance. So there might be some dimpling, particularly when you raise your arm.”
It was her network of family and friends that kept her going – particularly youngest daughter Ruby’s school and netball community. Ruby was doing Year 12 at the time and playing for Contax Netball Club, and the support was immense.
“Netball were amazing, the mother-like figures at netball were all there for her,” Alex says. “I’d never missed a game of netball until then.”